1) log more lifecycle events
- acceptance
- handshake completion
- added & removed (from our connection map)
The latter is a bit verbose but may help us track down the cause for
going to introduce here, then this would fall in the 'debug' category.
2) better error logging
- log error as part of "shutting down" log event rather than separately
- indicate "blocked UDP connectivity" as a possible cause when
getting a timeout on a not-fully-established connection.
The rationale for the latter is that inbound connections get
marked as established when first receiving a heartbeat frame over
UDP, which are the only frames that get transmitted prior to the
connection being fully established. Note that outbound
connections get marked as established when receiving the
ConnectionEstablished message over TCP, which is sent by the peer
when it first receives a heartbeat. See #342.
Closes#340.
Matthias Radestock